tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7033827069680736599.post8167474077690424482..comments2023-10-07T03:56:02.173-06:00Comments on Gems from Pearlie Meg: Tender MerciesMeglenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01259005242925459799noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7033827069680736599.post-37273395364139679112016-04-21T21:58:50.559-06:002016-04-21T21:58:50.559-06:00Love to all of you. Hang in there, and be validate...Love to all of you. Hang in there, and be validated.<br />VKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17120810780221963010noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7033827069680736599.post-90973394980132243052016-03-16T12:19:28.659-06:002016-03-16T12:19:28.659-06:00Secondary infertility stinks. It's definitely ...Secondary infertility stinks. It's definitely a hard position to be in and a very real struggle. You are very much in my prayers! Kimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00808466122460412934noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7033827069680736599.post-16015471598969837492016-03-15T05:05:12.134-06:002016-03-15T05:05:12.134-06:00I'm so glad you wrote this! I am a sharer and ...I'm so glad you wrote this! I am a sharer and I find it to be the most positive, cathartic thing I can do. And then you can be in prayers when you're in need. I don't care how many kids you have, to not feel in control of timing would be maddening. Not a drop of this is selfish or callous. Quite the opposite actually. We don't have to have the hardest trials possible to be worthy of a shoulder to cry on. I think you are brave and such a cute mama. And I will give you such a hug this summer!!! Love and prayers cute cousin! Muah*the hillshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10867772660608375224noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7033827069680736599.post-13402232512245468452016-03-14T15:34:43.453-06:002016-03-14T15:34:43.453-06:00So much love for you, Sister! I remember talking t...So much love for you, Sister! I remember talking to my sister when she was struggling to get pregnant with her #2, (6 years between her #1 and #2). It's a struggle. Yes, you have the feeling of guilt that you are crying for #2, when many women don't even have #1. But that pain and yearning are valid. It's a feeling that your family is incomplete, and that someone who should be there is not. It's always amazing to me how you can miss someone you've never even met before. I don't know that there's anything I can say to help ease the pain. But I just want you to know that I'm here. I've got 2 arms that are pretty good at giving hugs, and a snuggly little boy who with share cuddles with anyone who wants them (here's hoping that lasts a while longer).Meghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08699572811327094881noreply@blogger.com